You can uninstall or removes an installed kdm-theme-bespin package itself from Ubuntu 14.04 LTS (Trusty Tahr) through the terminal,
$ sudo apt-get remove kdm-theme-bespin
If you would like to remove kdm-theme-bespin and it's dependent packages which are no longer needed from Ubuntu,
$ sudo apt-get remove --auto-remove kdm-theme-bespin
If you use with purge options to kdm-theme-bespin package all the configuration and dependent packages will be removed.
$ sudo apt-get purge kdm-theme-bespin
If you use purge options along with auto remove, will be removed everything regarding the package, It's really useful when you want to reinstall again.
$ sudo apt-get purge --auto-remove kdm-theme-bespin